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Similar Organizations

My wife and I appreciate these organizations but do not necessarily support everything they say or do.

AASECT

American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Lists and supports mental health professionals.

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ASAP

Association for Sexual Abuse Prevention. Helps connect MAPs with mental health professionals and hosts workshops to train therapist is the best ways to help non-offending pedophiles.

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ATSA

Association for the Treatment and Prevention of Sexual Abuse. Professional support for mental health professionals.

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B4U-act

Dialog among the mental health community and MAPs.

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Christian Pedophile

Finding a Way Through Pedophilia with Jesus.

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Help Wanted

Online course to provide help to individuals attracted to younger children.

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MAP Resources

Elliot's website with links to other information.

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MSC

MAP Support Club. Group chat for ages 13 and up.

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Prostasia Foundation

Focus on finding legal outlets for MAPs.

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SAA

Sex Addicts Anonymous has several groups  specifically for MAPs.

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Stepping Out of the Shadows

MAPs describe what it is like to live with pedophilia.

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StopItNow

Primary prevention resources.

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StopSO

Primary prevention treatment providers in the UK.

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Talking for Change

Therapy available in parts of Canada.

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VirPed

Peer support group for virtuous pedophiles.

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Welcome to ASAP

Learn more about who we are and what we do.

What is ASAP?

This website is maintained by Gary Gibson with the support of my wife, Tabitha Abel.  We started reaching out to minor-attracted people in 2011 using the acronym "ASAP" for Abel Sexual Abuse Prevention. "ASAP" is used by a multitude of entities because of its connection with "As Soon As Possible." Tabitha's last name is Abel, which also suggests that we are "able" to help people with pedophilia and you are "able" to avoid abusing children even though you may be attracted to them.

We morphed into the Association for Sexual Abuse Prevention when we established a non-profit organization in 2015, which continues to function under the direction of a board of directors. We work closely together with them, as we respond to requests for help.

Core Values

ASAP is based on the following core values:

1. An adult should never sexually interact with a child.

2. Minor-attracted people do not choose to be attracted to children, but they can choose to refrain from acting on the attraction.

3. Therapy does not change a person's sexual orientation, but it can help a person accept his or her attraction to children without acting on it.